facing reality? hiding? i dunno.

dun give urself a false sense of well-being by making urself oblivious to reality.. if u accept reality for what it is, u can either change it ot adapt to it..but u cannot do either if u're nt aware that it exist.. but sad to say, many of us are like that.. we think that by hiding and living in denial, the "bad stuff" will pass us by and life goes on.. but more often den not, they're wrong.. by doing so, they're living in their comfy shells, afraid to come out, afraid to make changes for fear that their life will be affected.. but bear in mind that watever changes u make in ur life will have an effect.. the cause-and-effect law will be in place even if u choose to ignore the facts..

by believing that the facts that u see aint true or real at all, we're behaving like kids.. totally and absolutely childish.. for eg: have u ever see a young kid covers his face with his hands and thinking that if he cant see u, u cant see him either? the same rule applies.. it's not as if by hiding away from reality, it will never find and see you.. and u can hide at the edge of the world forever.. one day it'll dawn on u that actually all u need is to acknowledge the fact that things aint going the way u want it to.. and then u can make the necessary changes or accommodations so as to go 1 step further to reaching wat u have in mind.. aint that better?

in addition, by learning to live life as we go by making necessary changes and what-so-ever, we're actually accumulating experiences and skills needed to make our existent a better one? think so bah.. not entirely sure either.. all i know is that if u face a problem, dun hurry to put ur head back into ur protective shell like a tortise.. learn to look ard and acquire knowledge so that u'll be better equipped with the skills to handle the same type of situation or problem in the future..

but the funniest thing is that most pple actually thot of this b4, coz it's the best approach.. but dunno why most of us dun seem to learn and tk this approach when needed.. we all put on our armour and lift up our shields.. seemingly very unwilling to come into contact with the problem when we shld.. but an enemy might one day turn into a friend.. y not give it a try? sounds so easy.. but so hard to put into action.. aiya.. crap again! sianz!! this is what happens when i'm way too bored..