no topic.. on May 02

In life, we often have many unanswered questions.. and to whom do we post these questions to?
1) god
2) friends and family
3) aiya~ juz leave it unanswered lor.. since there's no solution mah..

for example: my favourite qn abt life..
" If life is only a journey towards death, den why are we working so hard towards it?"

see, this kinda qns cannot be answered by any one in particular.. no specific answer..
so when times like this arrive, we have to come up with our own theories to live life by.. some pple will think that coz we want to end the journey sooner, others may have views like we want to enjoy life fuller by worker harder so at the end of it all, we can rest.. of course there are many other different views.. wont be listing them down..

by generating our own theories, as in "rules" that we go thru life by (e.g. saving IS a virtue?), den we will tend to follow them and live life the way we want it to.. most of the time anyway.. [imagine ur friend telling u that saving is a bad habit.. u'll believe in urself more and think that ur friend is crazy, coz he or she is having the "wrong" mindset.. and by doing so, u'll have things ur way, and will be happy..]

believing is a need. all of us need to believe in something.. build up faith in something... coz when u believe u can, u will.. and well, trusting urself is very impt oso... we all live thru life by what we think is OUR way.. and well, pessimism aint bad all the time.. coz by looking at the "darker" side of life, u'll be able to appreciate it more fully right?

however, bear in mind that no one can have the exact same values in which u live by coz no one can fully agree with the way u run ur life.. right? simply bcoz they're not you and you're not them.. and abt having our own beliefs, mindsets and what not, they juz make us stand out from the rest isnt it? allow us to be unique individuals.. there's no qns abt the reliability of the way a person runs/rules his or her life, coz it aint possible to determine what's right and what's not in this case.. it's fully up to the person to define and determine what he or she choose to believe, and i repeat, CHOOSE to believe... so pretty much of an individual thingy huh..