hmm.. reflecting is, actually bad sometimes.. coz when u reflect, u'll tend to live in the past and when u do so, u'll risk not living in the present.. and being coped up in the past makes pple more miserable usually, coz when u think back of the gd times, u'll be sad.. when u think back of the wrong choices u made or the wrong things u said, u'll regret and be sad.. again..
but not reflecting is bad oso, coz when u dun, u'll tend to ignore wat's going on in ur life.. and fail to learn from ur mistakes.. that's when troubles start popping up.. coz u'll keep repeating mistakes again and again.. failing to acknowledge the fact that u've actually done it the wrong way in the past.. and failure to know ur mistakes will lead to failure to succeed..
reflecting oso put pple into a solemn mood.. that's when u feel most sensitive to ur surroundings and actually get in touch with ur feelings.. things that u put away and locked up at the bottom of ur heart.. but many pple actually try very hard to avoid this kinda situations for fear that they might be emotional and appear as a weakling to others..
hmm.. think i'm getting into the tok-and-rattle-nonsense mode.. better stop here.. if u disagree wif wat i've said so far, feel free to make comments.. den i'll be able to look at things in a new way maybe? lolx.. =D
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